Send a message to the person who requested a photo of the grave monument of Kate Maud Heaton with the following comment:
The Fred Heaton who was the husband of Kate Maud was the nephew of a Fred Heaton who was my Grand uncle, and for a long while I was confused between the two of them, and only in the last few days have I been able to track down the Fred in Lightcliffe graveyard. I would be most grateful if you were able to forward a picture of the headstone to me. Best wishes, Harvey.