Send a message to the person who requested a photo of the grave monument of John Henry Vasey with the following comment:
I am connected to the Vasey family through my maternal grandmother, Gertrude Vasey. I have been doing some family tree research recently and would really appreciate any photos of Vasey graves that you have. I am very happy to make a donation towards the work you are doing and would like to say thank you for the time you are giving up.