Send a message to the person who requested a photo of the grave monument of Harriet Newson with the following comment:
Glenn I think the trick is to become self-sufficient-live off the grid. That cuts lvinig expenses (though you do have more chores, like gardening and slaughtering a goat now and then). Cutting lvinig expenses means you don't have to earn as much to sustain a family as if you purchase everything, in the modern highly specialized society model we now have.