Send a message to the person who requested a photo of the grave monument of Fred Shackleton with the following comment:
This grave is of my grandfather Fred, who died when my father was only 3. I do not know the circumstances. His son Roy, my father, was killed in a road accident when I was nearly 3, and I don't remember him, but I do remember his mother, Olive. My mother re married but I always maintain a strong connection to the Shackleton family name and want to ensure my children do too. I live in Bournemouth so it is difficult to visit the grave and I should think, irrelevant to offer to act as a volunteer.