Send a message to the person who requested a photo of the grave monument of Emily Finch with the following comment:
Emily is my 3 x great aunt and the only sister of my 2 x great grandfather, William Goring Finch. They had a brother John Rye Finch and their parents were Richard Goring Finch and Mary Ann Carr. I'm hoping that there will be something on the gravestone that will confirm it matches my Emily.