Send a message to the person who requested a photo of the grave monument of Alexander Ross with the following comment:
because he is my brother-in-law of 4th cousin 2x removed of 2nd cousin 8x removed and I am trying to compile myfamily tree. Where I have no photos or anything else I use gravestones as a marker. I am also curious if this is the same person given he lived in Kent and died in the Royal County of Berkshire it is not, as yet, clear to me how he ended up being buried in Edinburgh.